To attune to your partner’s difficult feelings requires you to connect with that feeling within yourself.If you’re having trouble climbing into the hole with your partner, start by being curious about what they’re feeling.“There is an extraordinary potential hidden inside every human being.If it is awakened it will take you to a much higher plane of consciousness – beyond the limitations of human body-mind.By receiving empathy, not only do we feel how amazing it is to be understood, we also learn about the courage it takes to be vulnerable.Instead of trying to change or fix the feelings of the person you love, focus on connecting with them.
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