All you’re doing is going by your gut feeling and the chemistry you feel when you’re with him.
What you really want to do is take a cue from guys and use those first few dates like they do – as a fun learning process to meet different kinds of people and spend time with them in a no-pressure way.
Suddenly he feels pressured, and she loses that cool-girl vibe that attracted him in the first place.
I can’t tell you how many women write to me about this.
They had a great couple of first dates, the guy kept asking her back out, she got her hopes up, and then the guy stopped initiating anything.
But if he still doesn't respond when you bring it up again, it may be time to rethink the relationship.
"You have to decide which you want more: a guy who's committed or this guy, even if he won't ever be," Trespicio says.