So be aware of this early on and know very your partners temperament well before you even think about getting married.
They also have a terrible time admitting their feelings or communicating their emotions, as this is against their cultural mores.
And the same goes for men, many women will expect that once they are married that they will just stay at home all day.How on Earth could you possibly think a relationship can grow, let along stay stable if both parties are not able to communicate? That’s around 100,000 people out of the 120,000,000 population, and you can bet a good deal of that .1% are not even Japanese.And we don’t mean typing messages in Google Translator, we mean actual relaying of feelings and concepts. So let’s say you’ve already given up learning Japanese and will only settle for an English-speaking partner. With the above list in mind it may appear daunting to find your English-speaking Japanese partner, however you should turn your frown upside down, because since the advent of the Internet you can search out actual groups in cities (again, it must be a large city) that exist solely for the purpose of meeting foreigners. A quick search on Google or Facebook of ‘tokyo foreigner meetup’ will reveal several groups.Rule (women): Depending on his Job, he will put it ahead of you and you will see very little of him. However, if his job is at a convenience store then you shouldn’t have this problem, but you should be aware of it, as it is part of their culture.Rule (men): Don’t get upset and insist that she shave her junk.